My Thanksgiving Hors d’Oeuvres + Cocktails


Hi Reader,

In my family, Thanksgiving didn’t begin with the turkey. Oh, no. It began the moment the doorbell rang, and my relatives descended like a biblical plague of locusts—if locusts wore polyester and carried rosaries.

Within minutes, coats were flung on my grandmother's bed, the TV was blasting the Macy’s parade, and to the uninitiated and our WASP neighbors, we sounded for all the world as if we were milliseconds away from a knife fight. But that's how we Portuguese talk to each other—loud, gregarious, and angry. If you know, you know.

Here’s the problem, though: Thanksgiving guests don’t arrive hungry. They arrive feral. Starving, cranky, circling the kitchen like Australian dingos close in on campers. ("A dingo ate my baby!" Again, if you know, you know.)

You could try to hold them off with a bowl of nuts or a sleeve of Ritz crackers, but trust me—that’s like bringing a water pistol to a forest fire.

The trick, I’ve learned, is to deploy hors d’oeuvres and cocktails like crowd control. A tray of stuffed mushrooms, a pitcher of something boozy yet civilized, and suddenly my cantankerous Uncle Joe is parked on the sofa, no longer threatening to carve the turkey early. Hors d’oeuvres aren’t just food—they’re diplomacy wrapped in puff pastry.

So this year, before the big bird makes its Norma Desmond entrance, let’s set the tone right: festive, fun, and just this side of tipsy.

Hors d’Oeuvres + Cocktails 101

  1. Mix hearty and light. A balance keeps guests satisfied but not stuffed. Think deviled eggs alongside shrimp skewers.
  2. Batch the cocktails. A big-batch punch or pitcher drink saves you from playing bartender all night.
  3. Make-ahead is your friend. Choose appetizers you can prep a day before—your future self will thank you.
  4. Think handheld. Forks are for later. Keep apps bite-sized, napkin-friendly, and fuss-free.
  5. Always one showstopper. A bubbling dip or dramatic cheese board makes people ooh and ahh (and distracts them while you finish in the kitchen).

WHAT'S INSIDE...

Blue Cheese Balls

Blue cheese balls are a party favorite and far easier than a cheese log for guests to navigate while juggling a glass of wine in their other hand.
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Prosciutto-Cheese Gougères

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For these gourgères, I went one better by adding to the batter classic Proscuitto di Parma as well as one of the noble cheeses of Italy, Grana Padano, along with thyme and rosemary to ensure every bite literally explodes with indulgence. Okay, perhaps I’m a little hyperbolic. But these are indeed not your ordinary savory gougères. Indeed, a fine piece of puffery.
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Apple Pie Moonshine

This apple cider-infused cocktail, made with vodka, apple cider, lemon, ginger, and spices, is very strong, but undeniably spectacular.
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Barefoot Contessa Rosemary Cashews

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Ina Garten's rosemary cashews are sweet and spicy and certain to start conversations. The inspired blend of cayenne, brown sugar, rosemary, and salt is perfectly spiced and just salty enough to be perfect with cocktails.
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Baked Feta & Figs

Baked feta and figs is an impressive and easy appetizer that's ready in less than 30 minutes. Sliced fresh figs are tossed in olive oil and the feta cheese is drizzled with honey. The whole thing is baked until runny and melted and gooey and impossible to not scrape up every last bite.
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Cranberry Margarita

This cranberry margarita makes a spiked cocktail for any occasion, whether Thanksgiving, Christmas, or a summer afternoon. The swizzle sticks aren't essential yet add a little lovely bling.
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Spiced Cider

There is very little on this earth better on a cold night than combining warm apple cider and bourbon with a blend of exotic spices. The smell fills the room, and more than a couple of these will put you on your butt. Believe me.
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Dill Dip With Potato Chips

Dips are the best, and not just because I like any occasion to serve potato chips. This creamy dip is just so easy to eat, and you can focus on one big flavor: Here, it’s a garden’s worth of dill, garlic, and lemon.
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Cornmeal Griddle Cakes

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These cornmeal griddle cakes are a simple Southern staple, made with a handful of inexpensive pantry ingredients including cornmeal, baking powder, salt, egg, and water. Entirely gluten-free and amazing at breakfast and beyond. Here's how to make them.

☞ BUDGET HACK: Top the cakes with inexpensive-but-doesn't-taste-like-it paddlefish caviar and sour cream.
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Bacon Jam

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This bacon jam, made with bacon, maple syrup, and coffee, is a sweet condiment slathered on burgers at the Skillet diner in Seattle--and just about everywhere else these days.
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