Why I Like Simple Thanksgivings the Best


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When I was younger—and oh-so-very single—I treated Thanksgiving the way some people treat a new relationship: with enthusiasm, optimism, and absolutely no sense of boundaries. I experimented. Wildly. Indiscriminately.

One year, I made turkey-mashed-potato-and-stuffing burritos because…why not? Another time, I ditched the 18-dish spread and instead crafted a Thanksgiving pot pie that crammed the entire holiday—turkey, stuffing, gravy, the whole dysfunctional family—under one crust. Some years, I cooked at home. Some years, I ate in restaurants. I ate Chinese, Indian, and burgers on Thanksgiving more than once. And the low point (or high point, depending on how you feel about mid-century cuisine) was the year I stayed on at Carnegie Mellon University in Pittsburgh, PA, for the holiday and heated up three Swanson turkey dinners in the oven. Not the microwave—the oven. I had standards.

But all those creative, unusual, trendy, trying-way-too-hard Thanksgivings eventually led me somewhere unexpected.

They led me back to simple. And that happened when I met The One.

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He's deeply, beautifully traditional—one of the things I adore most about him. While I was out there reinventing the holiday like some deranged culinary DJ, he was quietly loyal to the classics. Turkey. Mashed potatoes. Gravy you can practically stand a spoon in. The things that don’t need explaining or reimagining.

And slowly, through him, I fell in love with the simple and the true.

We even do these little rituals now—tiny, ordinary things that somehow anchor the whole day. We eat on either his mother’s Blue Liberty dishes or my grandmother’s pink floral ones. We put out the Wild Turkey decanters that have been in his family for decades. We don "Gobble 'Til You Wobble" T-shirts our niece, Megan, made for us. Every year, without negotiating, we watch the parade while having breakfast in front of the TV.

Although this year will be different. We’ll be in New York City…and for reasons I can’t quite wrap my head around, the man insists on going to the parade in person. Out there. In the crowds. While I fully intend to wave at him from the warm embrace of my friend’s couch, croissant in hand.

The point is: after years of trying every possible version of Thanksgiving, I’ve realized I don’t need clever or complicated or reinvented. I don’t need the turkey in a kimchi brine or the pie deconstructed or a tablescape curated within an inch of its life.

I just need what we’ve built together.

Simple. Classic. Us.

How to Pull Off a Simple, Classic Thanksgiving

  1. Stick to the staples. Turkey, stuffing, potatoes, gravy, cranberry sauce, pie. These five pillars will never let you down.
  2. Prep smart. Do as much as you can the day before—chopping, mixing, even setting the table—so the day feels calm, not chaotic.
  3. Season boldly. Classic doesn’t mean bland. Salt, pepper, butter, and herbs make simple food sing.
  4. Don’t overdo sides. Three or four is plenty. Quality over quantity keeps everyone happy (and you sane).
  5. Honor the ritual. Light a candle, pull out the good platter, let the table feel special—even if the food is beautifully simple.

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Simple Roast Turkey

Simple roast turkey is an easy way to cook the perfect bird for Thanksgiving. And by that we mean the best, juiciest roast turkey imaginable. A failproof technique, even for beginner cooks.
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Classic Turkey Gravy

Everyone needs a classic, foolproof, go-to classic turkey gravy. This is it. And all it takes is pan juices or drippings from your turkey, stock, butter, flour, and 20 minutes of your time.
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Easy Roasted Carrots

These easy roasted carrots boast four ingredients—carrots, butter, salt, and pepper—and one simple and perfect technique for roasting them to magnificence, bringing out their earthy sweetness.
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Pancetta & Herb Stuffed Turkey Breast

Whether you're hosting a small Thanksgiving gathering, or don't have the space, time, or inclination to wrestle with a whole bird, this pancetta and herb stuffed turkey breast makes for an easy holiday main course.
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Bourbon Sweet Potato Pie

This bourbon sweet potato pie, filled with sweet potatoes, butter, cream, eggs, spice, and bourbon, is topped with a brown sugar streusel. Suddenly, Thanksgiving is even better.
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Green Beans With Browned Butter & Almonds

Lemon zest, shallots, and red pepper flakes—as well as fragrant toasted almonds—give classic green beans amandine a bold update with plenty of texture. The browned butter amplifies the nuttiness of the almonds, adds a touch of richness, and ties everything together.
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Three-Cheese Vegetarian Lasagna

Three-cheese vegetarian lasagna is easy and exceptional and even sorta elegant any time of year BUT we especially welcome it at the Thanksgiving table when we need something vegetarian and lovely. Here's exactly how to make it plus what kind of cheeses work best.
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Herbed Bread & Celery Stuffing

This herbed bread and celery stuffing, made with celery, onion, thyme, basil, and parsley, is a sort of basic blank canvas of a stuffing that will satisfy you as-is or make a terrific foundation for your other embellishments. Lovely with chicken as well as turkey.
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Maple Roasted Parsnips

These maple-roasted parsnips are a simple yet unexpectedly delicious side dish. Few ingredients and easy prep make it a winner for both weeknights and special occasions.
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Potatoes Dauphinoise

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Potatoes Dauphinoise are potatoes, cream, cheese, and a French lineage. They're like scalloped potatoes and potatoes au gratin but are even more fancy but without being fussy. We really don't think comfort food gets any more comfort-y than this.
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